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By Arezou Mirzaei, A Certified Canadian Counsellor (CCC), Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and Psychology Instructor. Let’s be honest: bringing up the idea of counselling to your partner can feel like walking a tightrope over a minefield. It’s loaded. One wrong word and suddenly you’re in a defensive argument, feeling worse than before. But if you’re here, it means something in your relationship matters enough to fight for, not about. Whether you’re married, engaged, dating seriously, or even just figuring things out with someone, there are moments when you know something needs to change…
You are not alone in your struggles. Whether you're caught in cycles of overthinking, feeling lost in anxiety or depression, or wrestling with big questions about your purpose, there are many psychological models that can help you make sense of what you're going through. Each model—whether it's Buddhist Psychology, Psychoanalysis, Psychodynamic Therapy, ACT, CBT, or Internal Family Systems—offers a unique lens. In this guide, you'll learn how each approach understands six common concerns and discover insights to support your healing journey. 1. RUMINATION : "Why can’t I stop thinking about…
How's parenting going for you these days? If you're finding it easy that's great. Some people find parenting comes easily to them. Others find it pretty challenging. Especially this day in age with anxiety in our kids reaching maximum levels. How do you manage your child or teen's anxiety? Are you able to be present and not take it on? Or does it ruin your mood when your child is having a hard time? It's totally normal and expected to not be thrilled when your kids are down. You love them and want to protect them. Do you often take on their emotions too deeply though? To the point where your…
You left one world behind — or maybe you were born into two — and now, you're figuring out how to belong somewhere that doesn’t quite feel like home… yet. Whether you’ve immigrated, studied abroad, or grown up balancing your family’s traditions with the values around you, cultural adjustment is more than just learning the language or understanding social cues. It’s emotional. It’s identity-shaping. And sometimes, it’s lonely. Let’s talk about what it really feels like to live between cultures — and how to care for your mental health in the process. The Layers of Adjustment: More Than Just…
Ever end the workday totally wiped… even if you didn’t do all that much? You might tell yourself you just need more sleep. Or coffee. Or willpower. But here’s another possibility: your job might be draining you because it’s not aligned with your core talents or values. Let’s break that down. What Are Core Talents? Core talents are your natural gifts — the things that come so effortlessly to you that you barely notice them. They're not just skills you’ve developed. They’re ways of being that energize you when you use them. Think: Creativity and innovation Empathy and emotional attunement…
In a world that often celebrates independence and self-sufficiency, it's easy to forget that as humans, we’re deeply wired for connection. Whether it’s a heart-to-heart with a trusted friend, a shared laugh with a loved one, or a supportive space with a therapist, meaningful connection has the power to transform our emotional landscape. Let’s explore some of the key benefits of human connection—and why nurturing it can be one of the most healing things you can do for yourself. 1. Connection Reduces Stress When we feel emotionally supported, our nervous system responds. The presence of a safe…
Ever felt like your brain is running 37 tabs at once, and none of them will close? You’re trying to focus, but there’s music coming from somewhere, and you can’t find the source. Welcome to ADHD. Let’s explore this metaphor: Tab 1: The Thing You’re Supposed to Be Doing You're writing a paper. You’ve opened your laptop, your doc is up, and you’re ready. Except… Tab 2: The Thing You Just Remembered “Oh wait, I haven’t replied to that email.” You open Gmail. Then... Tab 3: You Start Researching You look up one article for the paper — and end up in a Wikipedia rabbit hole on dolphin intelligence…
Everyone finds relationships challenging at times. You're not alone! But there are different ways these challenges present and also different degrees of challenge. Are you someone who feels ok when not in a relationship but as soon as you're in it your overthinking starts up? (1) Is your overthinking more on the anxious side? For example, you may find yourself pondering on the daily what the status of your relationship is. When arguing or having conflict with your boyfriend or girlfriend you may worry that you two are breaking up. When they leave the house you may wonder if they still love you…
A car accident can change your life in an instant. Beyond the physical injuries, many people experience emotional and psychological distress that can linger long after the crash. If you’ve been in an accident, it’s important to take care of your mental well-being as part of your recovery process. Fortunately, ICBC’s Enahnced Care Program provides pre-approved counselling sessions to help you cope with the emotional impact of a motor vehicle accident. Here’s what you need to know to access these benefits and start feeling like yourself again. ICBC’s Enhanced Care Program – How It Works ICBC’s…
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