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We may all have trauma. What is traumatic is not objective as two people who experience the same thing may respond very differently. Physician and author Gabor Maté’s famous saying "trauma is not what happens to you; it's what happens inside you as a result of what happens to you” describes this well. Everyone’s experience is unique. And many of us underestimate the effects of what happened to us had on us. This is often because our ego is holding onto the idea that we are not that affected so that we can believe that we are strong and resilient. Many of us had to self-regulate and grow fast…
You are not alone in your struggles. Whether you're caught in cycles of overthinking, feeling lost in anxiety or depression, or wrestling with big questions about your purpose, there are many psychological models that can help you make sense of what you're going through. Each model—whether it's Buddhist Psychology, Psychoanalysis, Psychodynamic Therapy, ACT, CBT, or Internal Family Systems—offers a unique lens. In this guide, you'll learn how each approach understands six common concerns and discover insights to support your healing journey. 1. RUMINATION : "Why can’t I stop thinking about…
Shame and anger are two powerful emotions that often show up in our lives, sometimes in tandem, and they can have a profound effect on our emotional well-being and relationships. While they are distinct, they frequently intertwine, creating a cycle that can be difficult to break. Understanding the complex relationship between shame and anger is key to gaining control over them, and more importantly, to finding a path toward healing and emotional growth. When we learn to navigate these emotions mindfully, we can reduce their destructive power and move toward healthier, more balanced emotional…
We all have that inner voice that chimes in when we least expect it, casting doubts, judgments, and harsh criticisms. This "inner critic" is often loudest when we feel vulnerable, filling us with shame, guilt, or a sense of inadequacy. For many, it feels like a constant companion, one that undermines confidence and makes fulfillment seem just out of reach. But what if, rather than silencing or ignoring this voice, we took a moment to understand what it truly needs? In my work as a clinical counselor, I've found that behind the inner critic lies a complex set of unmet needs and fears. This…
If you’re struggling with an eating disorder, I want to take a moment to acknowledge how incredibly difficult it is to live with these challenges. You might be feeling overwhelmed by a constant battle with food, your body, and perhaps even your self-worth. It’s important to know that you’re not alone, and your feelings are valid. Living with an eating disorder often means trying countless methods to change your eating behaviors—counting calories, following strict diets, or perhaps even engaging in compensatory behaviors. You might have sought support through friends, family, or online…
Navigating life after experiencing narcissistic abuse can be an incredibly challenging journey. For many survivors, having others believe their circumstances is crucial as they often question their own reality and are learning to trust themselves again. Whether it was in a personal relationship, family dynamic, or even in a professional setting, the effects of narcissistic abuse can leave deep emotional scars. Understanding what narcissistic abuse is and how to heal from it is crucial for reclaiming your sense of self-worth and moving forward in a positive direction. What is Narcissistic Abuse…
Before becoming a medicine ceremonialist and just barely aware of the existence of 5-MeO-DMT, in a room with the view of a Costa Rican jungle I had my first experience with the sacrament. As a psychotherapist recently gone through a spiritual awakening, my worlds of psychology and spirituality are merging and 5-MeO-DMT has led to rapid shifts in my healing from undercovering repressed trauma to learning to open to states of ecstasy and oneness with the Infinite-Eternal-Divine in my daily life. Feeling the call to come back again and again to this medicine, I quickly recognized its potential as…
It might seem like a stretch to think that experiences with your caregiver that happened as early as day one...or even hour one...of life, would influence how you might experience relationships as an adult. Those non-verbal cues like eye contact, your caregiver's tone, their presence (consistent or otherwise), whether they held you, hugged you, and so many other interactions all affected future relationship. That's not intended to sound ominous but more, to help you possibly understand how some of the strengths or maybe vulnerabilities within your relationships now, might be influenced. If…
The human mind has evolved to solve complex problems and navigate the environment with unmatched dexterity. This potent tool has empowered humans to innovate, build civilizations, and achieve feats that are unparalleled in the animal kingdom. However, this same capacity for thought and reflection can become a source of distress. The mind's ability to ponder the past and imagine the future can lead to anxiety, regret, and countless forms of mental suffering. In essence, the mind that has been honed to master external challenges now, at times, turns its considerable power against itself…
Millions of people all over the world are affected by depression. However, despite its prevalence, misconceptions and misunderstandings about this condition persist, leading to ineffective and potentially harmful advice. One common myth is the notion that telling someone with depression to "just be happy" or to think positively will magically alleviate their symptoms. However, as mental health professionals and experts emphasize, the reality is far more complex. Depression is not merely a result of negative thinking or a lack of willpower. It is a multifaceted condition rooted in various…
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