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The start of a new year often arrives with a quiet pressure. That pressure is around that the issues from the past year need to be resolved and this year is the year it finally happens! Even if you don’t consciously buy into the idea of New Year’s resolutions, it can still feel as though January brings an unspoken expectation to reset, improve, or finally “get it together.” For adults with ADHD, this time of year can stir up a complicated mix of hope and apprehension. There is the hope that this year might be different, paired with the familiar worry that it won’t be. Many people with ADHD…

Every New Year we are flooded with motivation. This is the year we will wake up earlier eat better exercise more work harder rest more and somehow do it all without burning out. And yet by February many of those resolutions quietly disappear. The issue is rarely a lack of desire to change. More often it is the way we approach change. We Have Finite Energy and Time One of the biggest misconceptions about New Year’s resolutions is the belief that we can simply add new habits to our lives without removing anything else. As if time and energy will expand just because the calendar changed. In…

For many adults with ADHD, overwhelm isn’t tied to one specific crisis. It’s not always a major deadline, a big life change, or a single stressful event. Instead, it’s the constant accumulation of small things. Emails unanswered, tasks half-started, appointments to book, decisions to make, messages to reply to, laundry to fold, forms to complete, plans to organize. Thoughts that won’t quiet down. Even on days when nothing objectively “bad” is happening, your nervous system can feel overloaded. And when that overwhelm sets in, it’s easy to start questioning yourself: Why does everything feel…

We live in a world that celebrates speed. We demand faster progress, faster responses, and faster healing. Even our self-care often comes with an undertone of urgency: “fix,” “optimize,” “get back to normal.” Our bodies don't move at the pace of urgency. They move at the pace of trust. In my work as a somatic therapist, I’ve learned that the moments of real transformation rarely happen in a rush. They happen in the quiet spaces, when someone slows down enough to feel what’s here right now. It happens when the breath deepens, when the eyes soften, and when the body begins to recognize safety…

Are you feeling totally exhausted? Do even small daily tasks feel impossible? You might be experiencing neurodivergent burnout. This is more than just being tired. It happens when your brain and body are working too hard in a world that isn’t built for neurodivergent people. As a neurodivergent therapist, I want you to know: burnout is not your fault. Your brain and body are just telling you to slow down. Recovery is not about “fixing yourself.” It’s about resting, taking care of yourself, and finding ways to live that work for you. What Burnout Feels Like Some common signs of burnout include…

Artificial intelligence is transforming many industries, including mental health. AI chatbots and mental health apps promise instant support, coping strategies, and a sense of being heard at any hour. As conversations about mental health evolve, many people are weighing the pros and cons of traditional therapy vs AI tools when seeking support. You may wonder if AI can replace professional therapy or if human-led counselling is still necessary. This article explores the differences between AI-based support and therapy with a trained professional. It highlights the benefits and limitations of AI…

In the pursuit of personal and professional growth, many focus on mindset, strategy, and productivity, often overlooking one of the most powerful levers of transformation: the body. Your body is not just a vessel; it’s a reflection of your patterns, your beliefs, and your internal state. It is often the first place that unresolved pain, stress, and dysfunction manifest. And when harnessed intentionally, it becomes the foundation for sustainable high performance. The Body Holds More Than Muscle For many individuals, particularly high achievers, the body has become a battleground. Years of…

Feeling Unsure About Therapy? You’re Not Alone Maybe you’ve thought about therapy but held back. Maybe you’re unsure if it’s the right fit or have heard things that made you skeptical. The truth is, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Many people hesitate to reach out because of common myths and misunderstandings about what therapy really is. These myths can make therapy seem scary, ineffective, or only for people with “big” problems. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “therapy isn’t for me” or “I don’t need that,” this post is here to gently challenge those beliefs and open the door to…

You are not alone in your struggles. Whether you're caught in cycles of overthinking, feeling lost in anxiety or depression, or wrestling with big questions about your purpose, there are many psychological models that can help you make sense of what you're going through. Each model—whether it's Buddhist Psychology, Psychoanalysis, Psychodynamic Therapy, ACT, CBT, or Internal Family Systems—offers a unique lens. In this guide, you'll learn how each approach understands six common concerns and discover insights to support your healing journey. 1. RUMINATION : "Why can’t I stop thinking about…

You left one world behind — or maybe you were born into two — and now, you're figuring out how to belong somewhere that doesn’t quite feel like home… yet. Whether you’ve immigrated, studied abroad, or grown up balancing your family’s traditions with the values around you, cultural adjustment is more than just learning the language or understanding social cues. It’s emotional. It’s identity-shaping. And sometimes, it’s lonely. Let’s talk about what it really feels like to live between cultures — and how to care for your mental health in the process. The Layers of Adjustment: More Than Just…